Honest Parenting

WHICH ROAD DO I HAVE TO TAKE TO REAR A GOOD CHILD?

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All throughout the parenting process, you'll find yourself thinking and even daydreaming about things like wonderful times you will spend with your child, but you have to put that one on hold just for now. Not that it's not proper to dream bout your child's future, its just that things happens differently in real life. 

THE PROCESS OF BEING A NEW PARENT.

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Parenting skills are something that you must become skilled at and it is basically earned. At the time conception, your gratifying job as a parent finally begins. 

HERE ARE THE PROCESSES THAT YOU SHOULD KNOW TO BECOME SKILLED IN PARENTING. 

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To find out answers to solving your parenting issues, you can talk to another parent whom has actually gone through that same situation with their before. There are parenting forums that are available online nowadays and some are equipped with online chat options. There are many websites about parenting and you can find nearly all solution to every type of situation out there. Try to look at how other parents have ended their issues and what their solution was and try to see if that may actually work for you.

PARENTING IS A NEVER-ENDING JOB. 

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Just because now that your child is taller than you doesn't mean that they are more matured and ready for anything that this world can offer them. To raise a child into being a good adult definitely takes a commitment (life long that is). Parenting is the most underpaid job ever and you do not even earn anything from being a parent. There is a time where the fine line of parenting is nothing but wide, smooth and straight, that is when you know exactly what to do. Parenting never stops, whether you realized it or not. 

TEACH YOUR KIDS SELF-RELIANCE 

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This would make them have fond childhood memories or in a way heal your own emotional wounds by giving your children all of these materialistic things, you are interfering with your child's development unconsciously. By giving acceptance, abundant love and affection to your child, they tend to be kinder, charitable and best of all responsible as opposed to those whose parents acceded to their every whims and materialistic demands. True independence is the only precious gift that you as a parent can actually give to your child. A strong integrity and well developed self-esteem stretches beyond any possession and approval of their peers. 

GET MORE COMPLIANCE FROM YOUR CHILD.

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By showing your feelings towards your child - Often times when you start to show compassion towards your child and reflecting back what or how they are feeling is helpful for gaining cooperation from your child. To be able to get to the next place with your child, make it fun - If your child is the type that has troubles with changes and becomes oppositional, you can ask him/her to hop like a kangaroo to the door, or even have their favorite thing waiting in the car for them thus providing cooperation from you child. A example of positive communication is, when your child asks "Can I watch TV now?" If your initial response to allowing your child to watch TV is "No, you can't watch TV right now, try saying, "You can watch right after dinner". 

COMMON CHILD AND PARENT PROBLEMS.

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Though, children do not realize that not all parents can actually afford to pay high prices for their children clothes and shoes, I know that your own child won't take that into consideration, he/she wants to be just like the others, and often say that if others have it, why can't they have it too. Going out alone is just not an option for children any more. There is no use in going back down your memory lane (your own school days) if you want to try to help your child with their homework, you'll just probably find yourself lost and unable to understand the child's homework, since all of the teaching methods have changed since your were last in school. Plus, by being a active parent in your child's school system you will learn about their behavior while at school. 

MAKE MEMORIES WITH QUALITY FAMILY TIME.

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All that you should is change the way that you think, this can be achieved with simple steps with just a bit of planning and forethought. 

THE FOLLOWING TIPS ENSURE THAT YOUR FAMILY TIME WILL BE STRESS FREE AND WILL ENSURE THAT YOU WILL MAKE YOUR FAMILY MEMORIES LAST FOR A LIFETIME:

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> Also, there should be a timeout for issues that have been brought up earlier and the issues should be continued at a later time which is another solution for enjoying stress memories. 

> Design your dinner table to be a little more festive, avoid the usual setting of a bouquet of flowers.